Masturbation happens in every culture, across every period
of history, and it's the way most adolescents discover what they enjoy before
embarking on adult sexual relationships. However, if it's becoming an obsession
that inhibits other aspects of your life, or you belong to a religion or
philosophy that forbids masturbation, it's possible to curb the impulse. Here's
how to gather your self-discipline and take control of your urges.
In a world where drug and alcohol addiction dominate the news, talk shows,
reality television and self-help books, it’s easy to believe that the only way
to become an addict is to take a mind-altering substance. But behavioral
addiction – including shopping, gambling, masturbation, exercise and many others
– can be just as addictive as chemical substances. The Diagnostic and
Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, which is the bible of mental health
conditions and diagnoses, recently added the category of behavioral addictions
under the general heading of addictive disorders. These are addictions that
don’t require the use of chemical substances, and this addiction marks the
mental health communities acknowledgment that behaviors can be just as
addictive as chemical substances.
Understanding Masturbation Addiction
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Two brain chemicals play a powerful role in addiction. Dopamine is a
neurotransmitter that enables you to feel pleasurable emotions, and endorphins
are chemicals released during stress and physical activity that allow you to
recover and feel at ease. When you masturbate, the body releases dopamine to
enable you to feel sexual pleasure, and frequently releases endorphins when
you’re done masturbating. Over time, this frequent release of brain chemicals
can become addictive. Because endorphins and dopamine can help you cope with
stress, people experiencing extraordinary stress or mental health problems are
especially likely to become addicted to the release of these chemicals that
occurs with masturbation. Thus frequent masturbation can become an unhealthy
coping mechanism that causes you to avoid – rather than address – your
problems.
While masturbation is widely acknowledged to be an important part of healthy
sexuality, any behavior in excess can prove problematic.
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After all, exercise
can keep you alive, but too much exercise can kill you, and shopping helps you
access food, but too much shopping will quickly drive you into debt.
Masturbation is no different. If you masturbate several times a day, your brain
can become addicted to the release of powerful, pleasure-inducing chemicals.
Moreover, it can become more difficult for your brain to release these
chemicals without increasing stimulation. Consequently, you may need to
masturbate more frequently or to more dramatic stimuli in order to receive the
same pleasure you previously had. Many people become addicted to porn at the
same time they become addicted to masturbation because pornography allows
people to seek out increasingly graphic stimuli.
This perpetual chase of the next brain rush is a hallmark
of addiction. When your brain is fiending for dopamine, you’re experiencing
similar feelings to those of a heroin addict, so it makes no difference that
you’re not actually ingesting a chemical substance
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